TidBITS#1047/04-Oct-2010
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  Issue link: <http://db.tidbits.com/issue/1047>

  What's an appropriate age to introduce a kid to social media 
  services? Andy Affleck ponders the question as his 10-year-old 
  pesters him for a Facebook account. Also this week, Adam explores 
  the dark underside of URL shortening services - though they may 
  offer attractive features like click counting, they simply can't be 
  trusted with any link that's critical to your business. For iPhone 
  and iPod touch users, we have a pair of new ebooks: "Take Control of 
  iPhone Basics, iOS 4 Edition" for those new to the iPhone and "Take 
  Control of Mail on the iPhone and iPod touch, iOS 4 Edition" for 
  anyone trying to create a coherent mobile email strategy. Finally, 
  along with notable software releases like Premiere Elements 9.0, 
  Photoshop Elements 9.0, GraphicConverter 7.0, Eudora OSE 1.0, 
  Postbox 2, and Thunderbird 3.1.4, we have a more-detailed look at 
  StuffIt Deluxe 2011, the latest version of the longstanding 
  compression and archiving program.

Articles
    Avoid URL Shortening Services for Business-Related Links
    Two New Take Control Ebooks about the iPhone and iPod touch
    StuffIt Deluxe 2011 Adds Destinations
    When Should We Introduce Social Media to Kids?
    TidBITS Watchlist: Notable Software Updates for 4 October 2010
    ExtraBITS for 4 October 2010


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Avoid URL Shortening Services for Business-Related Links
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  by Adam C. Engst <ace@tidbits.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11628>
  4 comments

  It's so easy to be sucked in by a whizzy interface and a happy shiny 
  feature set. I've known about URL shortening services since their 
  inception, but I've always been troubled by the fact that there is 
  no guarantee that they will continue to redirect URLs forever. The 
  site could go down, the company could go bankrupt, and so on. In 
  fact, this has happened, with the tr.im service (see "Tr.im Trims 
  Its Shortening Service," 11 August 2009).

<http://tr.im/>
<http://db.tidbits.com/article/10469>

  For those unfamiliar with URL shortening services, the basic idea is 
  that you give them a long, unwieldy URL to be shortened, and they 
  store it in a database along with a unique code of four to seven 
  characters. The service then appends that code to their already 
  short domain - I'll be talking about <http://bit.ly/>, for 
  example - and when someone clicks the short link, the service's Web 
  server looks up the associated long link and silently redirects to 
  it. The shortened URLs are popular for space-constrained situations 
  like Twitter, where 140 characters leaves little room for a long 
  URL. (For more details, see "The Incredible Shrinking URL," 6 
  February 2006.)

<http://bit.ly/>
<http://db.tidbits.com/article/8412>

  In recent years, the URL shortening services have tried to 
  differentiate themselves by adding a variety of features, and this 
  is why I was attracted to bit.ly. Bit.ly has an elegant interface 
  that makes it easy to create short URLs, either from their site or 
  using a bookmarklet. They maintain a list of all the URLs you've 
  shortened, and you can even give them readable names. For each 
  shortened URL, bit.ly tracks how many clicks it has received, and 
  provides a nicely formatted page with graphs that show you how many 
  people have clicked on your link across time, what the top referrers 
  were, and the country locations of the people who clicked. Bit.ly 
  also provides an analysis page that summarizes that data for all 
  your links.

<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/bit.ly-link-list.png>
<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/bit.ly-analysis-page.png>

  Sounds great, right? So I thought as well, and I've been using 
  bit.ly in a limited way to track how many people clicked certain 
  links - mainly some truly long ones - in Take Control announcement 
  messages I send out. It has worked fine up to now, and I wasn't 
  terribly worried about bit.ly having a major outage or the company 
  behind bit.ly going bankrupt in the week or so that my message 
  announcing "Take Control of PDFpen 5" would be live. The risk seemed 
  small.

<http://www.takecontrolbooks.com/pdfpen-5?pt=TB1047>

  What I hadn't counted on was the scourge of the Internet, spammers. 
  URL shortening services are apparently being hammered constantly by 
  these scoundrels, who see them as a way of obfuscating URLs that 
  point to phishing sites, malware sites, and so on. I'm sure it's a 
  never-ending battle between the engineers and the spammers, and 
  bit.ly, like other services, also makes it possible for users to 
  report spammy links. When a link is flagged as being spammy, bit.ly 
  displays an interstitial page warning users that the destination 
  might be problematic. It is possible to click through to the 
  destination, but the mere existence of the page is going to scare 
  off nearly everyone.

<http://bit.ly/a/report_spam>
<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/bit.ly-warning-page.png>

  That's what happened to us. Someone on our mailing list reported the 
  link to the "Take Control of PDFpen 5" book page as suspect, and 
  suddenly, everyone who subsequently followed that link saw bit.ly's 
  warning page. Luckily, a kind reader alerted us to the problem, and 
  bit.ly support promptly removed the flag. Nevertheless, the damage 
  was done.

  Before I go further, let me be clear. Bit.ly's support 
  representative, Rex, responded quickly, answered my questions, and 
  was unfailingly polite. I can in no way complain about my support 
  experience. Nevertheless, I cannot recommend anyone use bit.ly or a 
  similar service for any link that impacts your business.

  The simple fact of the matter is that it's too easy for someone - 
  anyone - to flag any shortened link as spam in order to cause bit.ly 
  to display that warning page. Even if it wasn't done with malice, as 
  I'm sure it wasn't in our case, having a third party warning about 
  the safety of a link to your site will both prevent people from 
  clicking through and hurt your reputation. We send email only to 
  people who have ordered from us in the past and who have agreed to 
  be contacted, and we even delayed this particular mailing by a few 
  hours to finish off a quick-unsubscribe feature for our site. We're 
  trying to be as non-spammy as we can, but all it takes is one person 
  who doesn't remember buying a book from us 7 years ago and doesn't 
  read carefully, and suddenly we're tarred as spammers.

  Rex at bit.ly said they had no way of knowing what was and was not 
  legitimate. When I pointed out that they could easily have contacted 
  me first, since I'd created the link from a registered account with 
  my contact information, or that they could at least whitelist my 
  domain or links made from my account in the future, he said that 
  bit.ly has an extremely small team and has been unable to get to 
  such features, but that he'd forward them on up the chain again. I 
  have no reason to disbelieve him, nor do I have any reason to doubt 
  that bit.ly is essentially under constant attack from spammers.

  And yet, it comes down to trust. If I can't trust that my bit.ly 
  links will be redirected quickly and silently, there's no way I can 
  even consider using the service for business purposes. Yesterday I 
  was extremely happy with bit.ly, since I felt the clickthrough 
  statistics were providing some useful data. Today I'm left wondering 
  how many sales were lost and how many of my customers think less of 
  me because of bit.ly's flagging. Needless to say, bit.ly says 
  nothing about this possibility in the interface when you're creating 
  links.

  A quick glance at other URL shortening services reveals similar 
  policies, so I can't recommend using one at all unless you have some 
  guarantee that your URLs won't be flagged as spam or encumbered in 
  some way.

  After I initially wrote this article, I heard from a couple of 
  people for whom the Take Control mailing in which I'd used the 
  bit.ly link had been marked as spam by an automatic spam filter run 
  by their email provider, whereas previous Take Control mailings had 
  not been. Although there's no way of knowing for sure, it seems 
  plausible that the fact that scoundrels are using services like 
  bit.ly to obscure malicious links means that email messages with 
  shortened URLs may be more likely to trigger spam filters.

  The URL shortening business is a tough one, since it's not a 
  particularly difficult technical task. We could - and very well may 
  - build our own internal shortening service. It won't be as whizzy 
  as bit.ly, I'm sure, but at least we'll be able to trust it to 
  redirect our URLs silently and without an increased chance of 
  triggering spam filters. 


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Two New Take Control Ebooks about the iPhone and iPod touch
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  by Adam C. Engst <ace@tidbits.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11648>

  Apple's release of the iPad and their decision to keep it at iOS 3.2 
  while the iPhone and iPod touch jumped to iOS 4 has created some 
  confusion for users: although some differences among current iOS 
  devices will disappear once they are all running iOS 4.2, other 
  differences between the iPad and its smaller brethren are 
  inescapable.

  To provide the help that people need right now, we've released two 
  new ebooks: "Take Control of iPhone Basics, iOS 4 Edition," by Karen 
  G. Anderson, and "Take Control of Mail on the iPhone and iPod touch, 
  iOS 4 Edition," by Joe Kissell. 

  "Take Control of iPhone Basics, iOS 4 Edition" is our first book 
  from Karen Anderson, who was the managing editor of .Mac at Apple 
  before the MobileMe transition and who has edited a number of Take 
  Control titles. Her book covers the iPhone 3G, 3GS, and 4, and is 
  designed to help new and prospective iPhone buyers pick the right 
  iPhone model and accessories and successfully complete basic setup 
  tasks. She explains power management, connecting to the Internet, 
  how to set up a Bluetooth headset, transferring songs and other 
  media from a computer, creating a security passcode, and how to get 
  around the interface. Readers will also find help with synchronizing 
  calendar events and contacts (whether via iTunes or over-the-air), 
  buying apps, and finding apps and data on the iPhone. Finally, Karen 
  provides a tour of the important apps from Apple, making sure that 
  readers are comfortable with everything the iPhone can do.

<http://www.takecontrolbooks.com/iphone-basics?pt=TB1047>

  "Take Control of iPhone Basics, iOS 4 Edition" is for those who are 
  new to the iPhone or who want to ramp up their skill level and 
  expand their comfort zone with Apple's phone. However, there's an 
  area where even experienced users are often frustrated - dealing 
  with email - and that's where our next book steps in.

  "Take Control of Mail on the iPhone and iPod touch, iOS 4 Edition," 
  by Joe Kissell, looks at email on the iPhone and iPod touch under 
  iOS 4. In its 100 pages it provides the help you need to develop a 
  mobile email strategy that gives you full control of your email and 
  its related accounts, whether you use a regular IMAP account, Gmail, 
  MobileMe, or Exchange.

<http://www.takecontrolbooks.com/ios-4-mail?pt=TB1047>

  (This ebook is essentially an updated version of Joe's earlier "Take 
  Control of Mail on the iPad, iPhone, and iPod touch" that focuses on 
  the iOS 3 version of the Mail app on all three iOS devices. Since 
  the iPad still runs iOS 3.2, the earlier book remains for sale for 
  iPad users.)

<http://www.takecontrolbooks.com/iphone-mail?pt=TB1047>

  For those using an iPhone or iPod touch with iOS 4, Joe shares his 
  real-world recommendations about the best ways to use the Mail app, 
  offering carefully tested advice and directions for how to set up 
  accounts, receive email, read and send email, and file messages. Joe 
  also explains how to solve connection problems and work around 
  feature limitations.

  We're fully aware that we've constructed a sand castle on the beach 
  with this title, and the high tide slated to come with iOS 4.2 will 
  erode it. Once all the iOS devices are in sync with iOS 4.2, we'll 
  rationalize the situation in a way that doesn't penalize anyone who 
  buys "Take Control of Mail on the iPhone and iPod touch, iOS 4 
  Edition" now. Meanwhile, if you have questions like the following, 
  you'll find the answers in this book.

* What are the new features in iOS 4 Mail, and how do I use them?

* Why is an IMAP account especially useful on a mobile device?

* How do I set up my email accounts?

* How do I move around in the Mail app?

* What's the best mailbox setup for effective navigation and filing?

* How do I handle attachments?

* How does Mail integrate with other apps, like Calendar and Contacts?

* What are the best ways to find messages in the Mail app?

* What's the deal with Exchange ActiveSync accounts?

* Should I use push or fetch to get my messages?

* How do I integrate Gmail with Mail?

* Is there a way to move a message from one account to another?

* How can I use alternative From addresses for outgoing mail?

* Help! I can't send my email... what should I do? 


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StuffIt Deluxe 2011 Adds Destinations
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  by Adam C. Engst <ace@tidbits.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11637>

  Keeping with its traditional schedule, Smith Micro has released 
  StuffIt Deluxe 2011, the latest version of the longstanding 
  compression and archiving suite of programs. Not surprisingly, the 
  core functionality of the product remains unchanged, so it continues 
  to be able to create archives in a variety of different formats and 
  expand many more.

<http://www.stuffit.com/mac-deluxe.html>


**StuffIt Destinations** -- The main new feature in StuffIt Deluxe 
  2011 is the addition of the StuffIt Destinations application to the 
  suite. Where the StuffIt Archive Manager application that appeared 
  in StuffIt Deluxe 11 back in 2006 remains for locating and working 
  with archives on your hard disk, StuffIt Destinations now provides a 
  Dock-like drag-and-drop target for creating and expanding archives.

<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/StuffIt-Destinations.png>

  That's actually not quite right, since people don't really think, "I 
  want to compress this file and then send it via email." Instead, we 
  think, "I'd like to send this stuff to a colleague via email." The 
  whole compression step is something that's a good idea with large 
  files, and is necessary if you're sending a bunch of files, but 
  let's face it, it's a detail no one really needs to think about 
  these days.

  So StuffIt Destinations provides a floating set of customizable 
  tiles, each of which corresponds with a particular destination for 
  the files dropped on it. For each tile, you specify destination, 
  packaging, and notification options. There's also an Expander tile 
  for expanding anything dropped on it, and you can create multiple 
  Expander tiles with different settings.

<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/StuffIt-Destinations-edit-profile.png>

  Destinations can include a local file, a CD/DVD, Smith Micro's 
  SendStuffNow service (see "Smith Micro Enters File Sharing World 
  with SendStuffNow," 4 August 2010), MobileMe, FTP, a disk image, and 
  email (which is currently hard-coded to Apple Mail; Matthew 
  Covington of Smith Micro tells me the next minor update will work 
  with whatever the default mail client is). Some of the destinations, 
  such as MobileMe, FTP, and SendStuffNow, require additional 
  configuration information, such as login details and destination 
  directory.

<http://db.tidbits.com/article/11477>

  On the packaging side, each tile can archive files in StuffIt X or 
  Zip format (either plain or encrypted), tar with bzip2, or a disk 
  image. And you can be notified of task completion via either Growl 
  or email.

<http://growl.info/>

  Once you've configured your destination tiles, using StuffIt 
  Destinations is trivial. You either drop a file or folder on the 
  desired tile, or click a tile and choose a file or folder from the 
  Open dialog. If you don't like the order the tiles are in, 
  Command-drag them to rearrange. You can see a video demonstrating 
  StuffIt Destinations on YouTube.

<http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcbIzTQTxQc>

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  There's one other tweaky option for each destination tile - 
  Control-click it and you can set up a compression filter that 
  enables StuffIt Destinations to pick and choose among the files 
  dropped on it. So, for instance, you could set up a compression 
  filter to ignore .txt filename extensions, and if you then dropped a 
  folder containing JPEG and text files on the associated destination 
  tile, StuffIt Destinations would create an archive containing only 
  the JPEGs.

<http://www.tidbits.com/resources/2010-09/StuffIt-Destinations-filter.png>

  For people who distribute a lot of files to myriad locations, 
  StuffIt Destinations could be an extremely welcome workflow aid. If 
  you don't have the screen real estate to keep it running at all 
  times, you can create a droplet that performs the same task as a 
  particular tile; as with the compression filter, Control-click the 
  tile and choose Create Droplet. (Droplets created with previous 
  versions of StuffIt aren't compatible with StuffIt Destinations and 
  will need to be recreated.)

  Lacking from this iteration of StuffIt Destinations is any way to 
  extend it beyond its built-in capabilities. For instance, I've 
  created some complex Automator workflows for zipping, renaming, and 
  uploading Take Control ebooks to various online destinations. If I 
  were to use StuffIt Destinations in a big way, I'd like to be able 
  to integrate Automator workflows into destination tiles as well. 
  (And realistically, if you're an Automator power user, you can 
  probably replicate most of what StuffIt Destinations does in 
  Automator workflows.)


**Other New Features** -- Although StuffIt Destinations is the marquee 
  new feature in StuffIt Deluxe 2011, there are other changes worth 
  noting.

* StuffIt Deluxe 2011 now comes with installers for both Mac OS X and 
  Windows, and includes a 3-seat license. So if you need to use 
  StuffIt Deluxe on Windows at work, or in a virtual machine, you 
  don't need to buy a separate version.

* Better, faster compression. Smith Micro says that improvements in 
  the StuffIt X format make for faster compression when working with 
  large files on multi-processor machines, along with better 
  compression overall. Of course, because StuffIt X is proprietary, 
  it's best used only for internal or otherwise controlled situations.

* 64-bit support. Apparently, 64-bit support provides a slight 
  performance boost, particularly if there's a lot of RAM available, 
  but is really just about keeping current with Mac OS X.


**System Requirements and Known Issues** -- StuffIt Deluxe 2011 
  requires Mac OS X 10.5 Leopard or later, the iPhoto export plug-in 
  requires iPhoto 8.0 or later (otherwise known as iPhoto '09), and 
  the Aperture export plug-in requires Aperture 2.0 or later. To use 
  the MacFUSE plug-in or Growl notifications requires that you install 
  those utilities.

<http://code.google.com/p/macfuse/>

  However, there are some gotchas. Smith Micro ran into an OS-level 
  problem that prevents some components from working properly in 
  Leopard, including the StuffIt Contextual Menu, the StuffIt 
  Spotlight plug-in, and the StuffIt Quick Look plug-in. They're 
  working with Apple to resolve the problem and will release an update 
  when possible. Until then, if you need these features in Leopard, 
  you can contact Smith Micro tech support for a new build that should 
  work.

  In Mac OS X 10.6 Snow Leopard, contextual menus no longer work, so 
  the StuffIt Contextual Menu isn't available, but Magic Menu, in the 
  menu bar, provides the same functionality.


**The Lineup** -- As always, there are three levels of the StuffIt 
  family. StuffIt Deluxe includes everything for $49.99, and upgrades 
  from previous versions cost $29.99. In comparison, the $29.99 
  StuffIt (which was previously called StuffIt Standard Edition and 
  which costs $14.99 to upgrade) has all the basic features, including 
  StuffIt Destinations, but lacks the capability to browse archives, 
  add and remove files from existing archives, rename or extract 
  single files from within an archive, work with online services, and 
  optimize compression of MP3 and PDF files. It also lacks the iPhoto 
  and Aperture export plug-ins, and Automator actions. Finally, 
  StuffIt Expander remains free for anyone who just wants to expand 
  StuffIt archives, encrypted Zip archives, and many other formats.

<http://www.stuffit.com/mac-compare.html>
<http://www.stuffit.com/mac-stuffit.html>
<http://www.stuffit.com/mac-expander.html>

  In my testing, StuffIt Destinations has worked as promised, and the 
  core of StuffIt Deluxe continues to work fine as well. So is it 
  worth the upgrade? For someone who deals with only the occasional 
  archive, almost certainly not, but such people likely aren't buying 
  StuffIt to begin with. Those who live and die by StuffIt are using 
  it multiple times a day, every day, and for them, if StuffIt 
  Destinations can save a few minutes of creating and uploading 
  archives, it's likely worth the upgrade fee. 


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When Should We Introduce Social Media to Kids?
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  by Andy Affleck <andy@andyaffleck.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11633>
  1 comment

  When my son was in third grade, he attended a Waldorf school where 
  modern technology and media - TVs, computers, mobile phones, video 
  games, and so on - are severely restricted. My wife and I embraced 
  that idea while simultaneously feeing a little uncomfortable about 
  it. 

  On the one hand, kids need to be kids and there should be no rush to 
  have them grow up and be exposed to more-adult things. I also came 
  away from my time at the Harvard Graduate School of Education's 
  Technology in Education program with the firm belief that computers 
  in education make more sense at older ages than at younger ages. 
  Kids need the hands-on, get-your-fingers-dirty aspects of childhood. 
  All the constructivist (and constructionist) theories and tools 
  can't hold a candle to actual mucking about with objects in the real 
  world.

  On the other hand, adults use technology constantly, from the iPhone 
  and iPad to the Mac, and we spend time on Twitter and Facebook, 
  among many other online services. So it has become harder to stick 
  to this viewpoint over the years, not because of improvements to 
  educational technology, but rather because of the continuing 
  insinuation of advanced technology into everyday life and the rapid 
  growth of social media. And that raises the question of when a child 
  is old enough to be allowed to use the same technological products 
  and services that we adults do.

  My son, now 10 years old, wants a Facebook account. He wants the 
  restrictions to chat removed on his FreeRealms account. He's 
  starting to be bothered by the limits in interactions in Webkinz, 
  and he wants to video chat with his friends on Skype. Also, he wants 
  to make digital things. He wants to write games to share with his 
  friends on the Web, he wants to become a YouTube star (so far, I'm 
  helping him do movie reviews) and he wants to write, film, edit, and 
  score a movie (I signed him up for a mini-camp at the local Apple 
  Store to get him started).

<http://www.facebook.com/>
<http://www.freerealms.com/>
<http://www.webkinz.com/>

  I'm beginning to adjust my thinking about what technology he should 
  be allowed to use. The content creation and publishing tools don't 
  bother me much - they have only recently become usable by kids. But 
  the social media question is harder. His generation will be far more 
  connected than mine is. Why should we hold off on introducing him to 
  that world? It will play such a significant role in his life that it 
  seems to me his education should begin sooner. If he is to be truly 
  successful in the world when he comes of age, he should be armed to 
  the teeth with knowledge and skills. 

  Of course, the big issue is his age. He and his peers are too young 
  to navigate the eddies and swirls of the social media stream. You 
  read about the horror stories of young people getting online and not 
  being able to deal with the bullying and pressures that exist out 
  there. Alarmist pieces like "Facebook pressure: The horrifying week 
  I spent spying on my 11-year-old daughter" scare parents into 
  clamping down on social media use when, in fact, the author of that 
  very article actually happens on the solution: parental supervision.

<http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1289070/>

  When our children go out into the real world at this age, they never 
  do so alone. We parents accompany them. I go with my son when he 
  needs to go to the store. I take him to his play dates. I take him 
  to his scouting and karate events. Or he goes with my wife or 
  another parent. Pre-teens are almost never left alone without adult 
  supervision, to keep them safe and to ensure nothing bad happens. 
  Kids at this age are not good at seeing consequences to their 
  actions, and they do many ill-considered things.

  So it's our job as parents to protect our children and to keep 
  things from getting out of hand. It is our voices that tell them not 
  to get too close to the campfire or to stay off the rocks so no one 
  falls. It is we who tell them to look both ways when crossing the 
  street, to eat their vegetables, to turn off the TV and read a book, 
  to go to bed now, to not treat their friend that way, and to answer 
  the telephone politely. We tell them when to say please and thank 
  you so they learn at least the form of manners, even if their 
  understanding of why manners are important won't come for years. We 
  pay attention to their social interactions to help prevent them from 
  becoming bullies or complete introverts. We guide them and teach 
  them how to work within our society.

  Parents do all these things in the real world, but at the same time 
  many tell their children that they cannot go online. They prohibit 
  all things online because they are scared of the bullying and the 
  predators out there. And they do this even though online predation 
  is a vastly overblown worry and research has shown that bullying is 
  still more an offline problem than an online one.

<http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/14/technology/internet/14cyberweb.html>
<http://www.zephoria.org/thoughts/archives/2010/06/24/risky-behaviors-and-online-safety-a-2010-literature-review.html>

  Parents also latch onto things like Facebook's age limits, which 
  restrict accounts to those who are at least 13 years old. It's an 
  easy crutch, so they either lean on it or end up inadvertently 
  teaching their kids that lying about their age is OK to get them in 
  early. (Ironically, the age restriction is not there to protect 
  kids, but rather exists as the way these sites handle COPPA, the 
  Children's Online Privacy Protection Act. See "How COPPA Fails 
  Parents, Educators, Youth" for an explanation.) 

<http://www.coppa.org/>
<http://dmlcentral.net/blog/danah-boyd/how-coppa-fails-parents-educators-youth>

  But all of these knee-jerk reactions assume that we are going to 
  hand over the computer and walk away.

  Instead, we should start to walk our kids into this online world 
  just as we walk them into the real world. Let them get online but 
  supervise them. Allow them to start exploring and learning how the 
  online world works but stay with them on the journey until they can 
  go alone, the same way we already do this in the real world. (At the 
  same time, we need to recognize how immersive and compelling this 
  online world can be and set sensible limits. Children should still 
  run outside and play with real toys, not spend all of their time 
  online with virtual friends.)

  If you see bullying in the real world, you inform the parent of the 
  offending child and hope they will do something about it. If you see 
  bullying online, you can do the same thing. And if the other parent 
  fails to address the problem in the real world, you can usually 
  escalate the complaint to an authority figure - a bus driver, 
  teacher, or principal. That's not possible online, but in the 
  virtual world, you can block the bully from contacting your kid 
  entirely, which isn't possible in the real world. If your own child 
  acts inappropriately, you are there to stop it and explain how 
  social networks work, or at least how they should work. In short, 
  you can teach your kids how to act in polite online society, just as 
  you teach them to navigate social situations in the real world.

  Of course, the fallacy with this approach is that many of the 
  parents in my generation have no clue about appropriate online 
  behavior. Luckily, most of what's necessary can be accomplished 
  merely by sitting with your children as they explore online, so you 
  are there to correct or guide. I wish there were an online course 
  for parents to teach them what they need to know to do their jobs 
  correctly in the new media space. And I also wish our schools would 
  take up the challenge and find a way to add social networking tools 
  to their curricula so that children learn to use them in a smart, 
  effective, and ethical manner.

  As regards my own family, I am not saying that I will let my son lie 
  and get a Facebook account. I do still believe that we must consider 
  age appropriateness. He is just learning how to use the phone to 
  call his friends (we still have to remind him to be polite to 
  adults, tell them who he is when he calls, and things like that), he 
  can't type that well yet, and, frankly, he's only 10. There's plenty 
  of time. (That said, we've just learned of a new site called 
  Togetherville that piggybacks on Facebook and provides some level of 
  access with full parental supervision. We will be exploring it as a 
  possible bridge to Facebook when he is older.)

  But my reasons for holding him back from at least the social media 
  side of things stem not from fear but rather from a belief that he 
  is not sufficiently mature or socially adept yet. I believe he will 
  reach that state long before he's 13, but I'll deal with that 
  conundrum then. Meanwhile, he can create all the content he wants, 
  start his own blog, and more. And as he does and when he's ready for 
  social networking, I'll be there to guide him, just as I am out in 
  the real world. 


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TidBITS Watchlist: Notable Software Updates for 4 October 2010
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  by TidBITS Staff <editors@tidbits.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11647>

  **Premiere Elements 9.0** -- Adobe has released Premiere Elements 9.0, 
  the first time the formerly Windows-only consumer video editing 
  software has appeared under Mac OS X. Premiere Elements boasts 
  native AVCHD editing without the need to transcode footage, a 
  Sceneline mode for editing movies in a far simpler manner than the 
  full Timeline mode, integration with the new and included Adobe 
  Elements 9 Organizer application for managing one's media library, 
  and built-in DVD menu creation and burning capabilities, among other 
  features. Premiere Elements 9 is available now as a downloadable 
  installer (which also serves as a free trial version) or on disc. 
  (For a full review of Premiere Elements 9, see Jeff Carlson's review 
  in Macworld.) ($99 new, 1.71 GB)

<http://www.adobe.com/products/premiereel/>
<http://www.macworld.com/reviews/product/671492/review/premiere_elements_9.html>

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**Photoshop Elements 9.0** -- Adobe has updated Photoshop Elements, 
  its consumer image editing software. This new version brings the 
  program closer in line to the Windows software, introducing to the 
  Mac the Adobe Elements 9 Organizer for managing one's media library. 
  (The Organizer replaces Adobe Bridge for those tasks.) This version 
  finally gains the capability to create layer masks, adds 
  content-aware technology to the Spot Healing Brush for intelligently 
  making repairs, and introduces a new Photomerge feature called Style 
  Match that attempts to replicate the look of one photo by analyzing 
  another. The Guided Edit tools also gain a few Fun Edits presets for 
  creating reflections, pop-art effects, a Lomo effect, and steps for 
  improving portrait photos. Photoshop Elements 9 is available now as 
  a downloadable installer (which also serves as a free trial version) 
  or on disc. ($99 new, 2.01 GB)

<http://www.adobe.com/products/photoshopel/>

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**GraphicConverter 7.0** -- Lemke Software has released 
  GraphicConverter 7.0, a substantial upgrade to the popular image 
  conversion and editing powerhouse. The new version sports 
  GraphicConverter's first major new coat of paint in years; it has 
  finally shed the Classic look in favor of a modern, Cocoa-based 
  interface. Beyond the major makeover, GraphicConverter 7.0 
  introduces a few new features. It now shows images' embedded geodata 
  on a map, offers a new window for converting multiple files at once, 
  provides stepless zooming of preview images, better organizes the 
  preferences screen, and offers improved support for computers with 
  multiple processors. GraphicConverter 7.0 requires Mac OS X 10.5 
  Leopard or higher. ($34.95 new, $29.95 upgrade, 100.0 MB)

<http://www.lemkesoft.com/>

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**Eudora OSE 1.0** -- A group of Eudora's original developers has at 
  long last released Eudora OSE 1.0, an open-source email client based 
  on Mozilla's Thunderbird email program, but boasting features and 
  interface elements pulled from the classic Eudora that so many 
  people used and liked. Eudora, of course, began life in the late 
  1980s, but Qualcomm stopped development of the paid version of the 
  software four years ago with version 6.2.4 (see "Eudora Goes Open 
  Source with Thunderbird," 16 October 2006). Progress on Penelope, as 
  the open-source update to Eudora was code-named, moved slowly, with 
  the first beta release a year later (see "Penelope Project Ships 
  Eudora 8.0.0b1," 5 September 2007), and the final release after 
  three more years. Many long-time Eudora users have switched to other 
  email programs, but for those who either aren't happy after the 
  switch or who have held on to Eudora 6.2.4, Eudora OSE is worth a 
  look. The developers advise users updating from the beta versions of 
  Eudora OSE to back up mailbox and preference files before installing 
  the new release. (Free, 21.1 MB)

<https://wiki.mozilla.org/Eudora_OSE>
<https://wiki.mozilla.org/Thunderbird>
<http://db.tidbits.com/article/8710>
<http://db.tidbits.com/article/9151>

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**Postbox 2** -- Postbox, Inc. has released version 2 of its Postbox 
  email software, which gives the open-source Thunderbird email code 
  base a new interface and advanced features. Postbox 2 enables you to 
  create account groups, which are multiple unified inboxes containing 
  just the accounts you specify. Also new is what Postbox calls 
  Conversation View, which will look familiar to Gmail users; it 
  provides additional context by grouping all the messages in a given 
  thread. The new Quick Reply feature lets you compose a response 
  without leaving the message you already have open - you can dash off 
  a terse reply inline as you're reading a message. Postbox 2 is free 
  to try for 30 days, and family pack licenses are available. Postbox, 
  Inc. also makes the free Postbox Express, which lacks some the 
  features in its big brother, but which gives you an unlimited taste 
  of Postbox's basics. ($39.95 new, $19.95 upgrade, 12.0 MB) 

<http://www.postbox-inc.com/>
<http://www.postbox-inc.com/express_features>
<http://www.postbox-inc.com/editions>

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**Thunderbird 3.1.4** -- Mozilla has released Thunderbird 3.1.4, the 
  latest version of its open-source email client. The 3.1 release - 
  which came out earlier in September - made it easier to switch to 
  Thunderbird, whether from earlier versions of the software or from 
  other email clients, thanks to its new Migration Assistant. The new 
  version also introduced tabbed email browsing, mirroring the popular 
  Web browsing feature. Other new niceties include one-click Address 
  Book editing, an attachment reminder (which warns you if you try to 
  send an attachment-free email when your message implies that you 
  planned to attach one), and a Quick Filter search bar for finding 
  messages faster. The 3.1.4 maintenance update corrects a few bugs 
  related to the program's stability and interface. (Free, 20.5 MB)  

<http://www.mozillamessaging.com/thunderbird/>

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ExtraBITS for 4 October 2010
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  by TidBITS Staff <editors@tidbits.com>
  article link: <http://db.tidbits.com/article/11646>

  Three extra bits for you this week: news of the fall and potential 
  rise of the Xmarks cross-platform and cross-browser bookmark 
  synchronization service, a release date for Microsoft Office 2011, 
  and the debut of Amazon's Kindle for the Web, which is more a sales 
  tool than a user-centric service.


**Xmarks Bookmark Synchronization Service to Fold** -- Some of us here 
  at TidBITS were very bummed to read Steven Vaughan-Nichols's ZDNet 
  blog post bemoaning the 10 January 2011 shutdown of Xmarks, which 
  synchronizes bookmarks between different browsers, including Safari, 
  Firefox, and Google Chrome, even across operating systems. We never 
  got around to writing about Xmarks in TidBITS, but that was merely a 
  lack of time, not a lack of enthusiasm. If only other 
  synchronization services were as good! [Update: Since we initially 
  linked to Steven's post, things have changed and it sounds as though 
  Xmarks may have a second chance; see "Xmarks Is Dead. Long Live 
  Xmarks?" on the Xmarks blog for details.]

<http://www.zdnet.com/blog/networking/no-more-xmarks-no/192>
<http://blog.xmarks.com/?p=1945>

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**Microsoft Office 2011 Arrives 26 October** -- It takes time to 
  update powerful programs, but Microsoft says that Office 2011 for 
  the Mac will be available on 26 October 2010 (it's available for 
  pre-order now). The updated productivity suite promises performance 
  boosts along with newly revealed extras such as Full Screen Mode - 
  which lets you block out distractions while writing in Word - and 
  Dynamic Reorder - which lets you reorder layers in documents and 
  presentations. Office 2011 will be available in several editions: 
  Home and Student Edition includes Word, Excel, PowerPoint, and 
  Messenger for $119. Home and Business Edition adds Outlook - which 
  replaces Entourage - for $199. And the Academic Edition offers the 
  entire suite, including Outlook, for just $99... if you're a higher 
  education student, staffer, or faculty member.

<http://blog.officeformac.com/office-for-mac-2011-available-october-26/>

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**Amazon Debuts Kindle for the Web** -- In the company's continuing 
  effort to make the Kindle file format the de facto standard for 
  electronic books (which should not be allowed to happen, given how 
  inadequate the format is for anything but straight text), Amazon.com 
  has launched "Kindle for the Web," which lets site owners embed 
  Kindle book previews on their sites. Realistically, Kindle for the 
  Web is just a way to encourage people to preview the first chapter 
  of a Kindle-format book in a Web browser, after which they can 
  purchase the ebook for reading on a Kindle device or in Kindle 
  software on a Mac, iOS device, or Windows-based PC. It's a smart 
  move on Amazon's part, and notably different from how Apple has 
  restricted access to the iBookstore to the iBooks app.

<http://www.amazon.com/kindlefortheweb>

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